Great letter, Mom. Fun to hear some more of the details of the cruise
(although it was even more fun to be able to hear them in person last
night!). Thanks again for dinner last night. We had such a nice time and I
too was glad that Easton was willing to hop in the car with us and drive
up. She even came with us for a quick visit to the Genessys after we left
your place, where she met Jen and Wayne and Ashley. I didn't tell Easton
until afterwards that Max had gone on a couple dates with their other
daughter Kelsey back when they were both in high school. I know Jen really
loved Max and was always hoping he would ask Kelsey out again, so I
thought it was probably interesting for her to meet the girl that Max is
really in love with. Apparently Kelsey is just about engaged herself at
this point, so I guess everything has worked out for everybody. Anyway,
thanks again for the fun night!
Blaine
Wednesday, February 26, 2014
Re: Home Sweet Home
Re: Week 49 - Dad - Bold Armor
On Sunday, February 23, 2014, bret bassett <bretbassett@gmail.com> wrote:
--Week 49 - Dad - Bold Armor
Sunday, February 23, 2014
9:25 PM
Dear Max,
Questions:
- We need 2 pictures for your international Driver's license as soon as possible Try if you can to get it taken today. Otherwise you may be busted back to a private.
- Do you still want letters (paper) from your pre-mission buddies (Trevor, Zach, Redford, Garrett)? I have about 4 month's worth that I could print for you…but I don't know that they are things you'd want since you probably already get letters from them independently. Let me know and I'll send them.
- How are your investigators doing?
Scripture:
This morning during our Stake Priesthood Leadership meeting, we were talking about how the Doctrine of Christ is critical in so many ways. I hope that is what you are sharing at every turn. As we were talking about the last phase of the Doctrine of Christ (endurance) our president was encouraging us to not think of it as a terrible painful process, but one full of hope, joy and blessings. I do believe he is right. However, I also think the temptations before us can be overwhelming. And I thought of the scripture in Ephesians 6 where Paul talks about how we need to put on the whole armor of God… for even if we do all we can, if we can even have the strength to stand, we will be good.
12 For we awrestle not bagainst cflesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the drulers of the edarknessof this world, against spiritual fwickedness in high places.
13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
As I read ahead, and read about the whole armor of God, I also saw the blessing that comes to those who do it… or at least at first that's what I thought…
19 And for me, that utterance may be given unto me, that I may open my mouth boldly, to make known the amystery of the gospel,
20 For which I am an ambassador in bonds: that therein I may speak aboldly, as I ought to speak.
Then as I pondered it more, it occurred to me that perhaps Paul wasn't saying that by putting on the whole armor of God we become more bold to do our duty…but perhaps he was saying that when we speak boldly and do our duty as we ought, that it is another form of armor…it protects us even more.
Either way you interpret the scripture the blessings of protection and boldness comes as we do our duty and wear the armor.
I pray that you will go out and work hard…and with boldness. And as you do it will protect you from temptation and challenges of the world.
May we all do our duties that we can be clean.
Thought:
I shared the following thought to my coworkers at the Church Office, and to my Brothers and Sisters on the Cruise. I think since you are the representative of the Lord (to your investigators) and of the Mission President (to your Zone) you may appreciate this thought. Enjoy.
I remember years ago as Stake President we had a Wonderful Family History Fair. It was amazing. So many worked so hard to prepare:
- Fill the gym with displays
- Things from all over the world
- Journals that were 100's of years old
- Old English Writing displays
- Armor making displays
- People who were related to prophets
- A 30' wall covering of one person's family history
- Workshops on how to write a journal
- Movies showing how to do family history
- Indexing instruction
- Desserts and Meals from many countries out in the pavillion
- Photographer taking pictures of families which were then posted online
As President, I was so happy with the work. I wanted to give everyone who came, who worked a big hug and thank them for all they did.
A few weeks later a visiting Elder Dale G. Renlund, came to visit our stake. I was so happy with what we had done, that when he asked how our Stake was doing, I did a full description of this event.
Perhaps I'd gone on a little too long on how great our stake was, when He then taught me a very important lesson.
He said it was a lesson he had been taught years before as a Stake President.
And it's a lesson that applies to each of us here.
And that was - "You can certainly be PLEASED with wonderful works. But you can NEVER be SATISFIED."
Here at the church, we are in the process of going through our ATIs. Being reviewed for work done last year, and looking at work we want to accomplish this year.
We may have done some wonderful things last year. This is a time to pause and reflect on how good it feels to accomplish some great things.
But it's also a time to see what we could have done better. And pause long enough to commit to doing better.
We can be pleased… but never satisfied.
Elder Christopherson spoke on the subject of being chastened and receiving correction. He said that each of us - if we want to become like unto the savior - have a long way to go. But if we will develop one attribute, we will arrive. And that attribute is this:
"willingly to accept and even seek correction. Correction is vital if we would conform our lives “unto a perfect man, [that is,] unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ” (Ephesians 4:13). Paul said of divine correction or chastening, “For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth” (Hebrews 12:6). Though it is often difficult to endure, truly we ought to rejoice that God considers us worth the time and trouble to correct.
He said that if we will seek Divine chastening we will come unto the perfect man/woman. This attribute has 3 purposes that prepares us… (1) to persuade us to repent, (2) to refine and sanctify us, and (3) at times to redirect our course in life to what God knows is a better path.
May each of us find pleasure in the good works we do, enjoy our time here. But may we also seek diving chastening that we may never be satisfied.
May the Lord bless you and your companion, and your investigators and MAs.
We love and pray for you always.
Love,
Dad
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Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Re: Auntie Yum Yum
Thanks for writing sweetie. I always feel bad when I miss a week writing Max but I feel better to see such a thorough letter that tells more about what is going on (and in a more fun and relevant way) than I would have been able to write anyway. You got it all in there about our fun week and I especially liked the snapshots you did of each kid. You know the essence of good letter writing, I think: Anyone who read your letter really does have a good feel for what is going on in our lives right now. Anyway, thanks for writing so I could get to bed early and wake up early enough to get my work done this morning. Love you!BlaineP.S. Intentionally leaving off the end tag since I noticed you didn't post to the BAWB. Hope that’s okay.From: Rosey <roseybassett@gmail.com>
Date: Monday, February 24, 2014 8:49 AM
To: Janey Nielsen <janeybassett@gmail.com>
Cc: Kristi Bassett <kristi.bassett@gmail.com>, Max Bassett <max.bassett@myldsmail.net>, "bwbassetts@googlegroups.com" <bwbassetts@googlegroups.com>
Subject: Re: Auntie Yum Yum--The title auntie yum yum is definitely appropriate! The cookie story cracked me up. Love ya jane!
Sent from my iPhoneI made the letter! Yesssssss! :) haha. I always love your letters Kris. Keep up the good attitude....you have less than 100 days.
On Sunday, February 23, 2014, Kristi Bassett <kristi.bassett@gmail.com> wrote:
--Hey Max!--We missed you extra tonight! It was really fun to see mom, dad, Janey, Warner, Rosey and Easton tonight. For some reason it feels like it has been forever since we have seen anyone and I've been longing to reconnect. So it was good to see everyone. Of course my heart sank at the thought that in just a few short months we will be leaving and going to Texas. I can't explain why it was so hard for me to move back to Utah and now it is really hard for me to move back to Texas. . . it doesn't make sense, but that's just the way it is I suppose :) I guess maybe I am just really longing to stay in one place for more than a couple of years and it would be nice if that place was close to our family. We were talking to Easton too about how hard it will be to not be here when you get home from your mission! We're going to save our pennies so we can fly you out to visit us once you get home, so be excited for that : )It's been a really nice week. Blaine had the week "off" for placement break. It wasn't as fun as breaks in years past have been. The first year for placement break we went to DIsneyland, and the second year we stayed here and planned our trip to Mexico :). But it's just really nice having him around. The way Blaine's schedule works he didn't have class Thursday, Friday and then the entire next week. He worked really hard most of the time but we did a few fun things.On Monday we went with my parents to see the "ice castles" in Midway. It's kind of been all the craze here in Utah to go to them. I was glad we got a chance to go. They are basically just these man made castles that they make out of icicles. They make mazes and slot canyons and slides and other fun stuff. It was fun to go visit that but after standing in line for about an hour and then wandering around for an hour we were pretty freezing : )We had a fun surprise visit from Janey on Thursday :) She's trying to give Auntie Fun Fun a run for her money by bringing us delicious sugar cookies :) Maybe we will have to call her Auntie Yum Yum ha ha ;) It was really a fun surprise to have her drop by and I got a kick of how much Blaine LOVES the sugar cookies. I love them too, but it was literally all Blaine could talk about for like 48 hours. He even negotiated with the kids to buy portions of their cookies off of them (he got a steal at like 27 cents per half a cookie).Speaking of money, Bentley thinks he is saving up for an iPhone. I don't even have the heart to break it to him that it's not going to happen. Mostly because he only has $25 saved and I think it might take another decade to save the remaining $600. So I'll just let him keep on saving on!We took the kids swimming on Friday night to the legacy center. It's been really fun to take the kids swimming lately, especially there, because the water is shallow enough in the whole place that Gwen and Bentley can both reach everywhere in the pool. And they have a hot tub, so sometimes we can get away with slapping Ivy's life jacket on (and, let's be honest, Bentley's too :) and sitting in the hot tub while watching them play in the pool. Win win! Except now that I'm pregnant I can't sit in the hot tub, ha ha. So this time I was feeling pretty good and just played with the kids. They are a lot of fun when they are getting along, you'll be proud of what a good little swimmer Ivy is.Well, kind of a boring letter, but I'll end with just a little bit about each kid -Gwen - Wow. She's been really hard for me lately. She's only nine but she is starting to act about 14, and not in a good way. She's started in to the "OH MY GOSHHHHHHuh" and "Mooooomuh" can you hear the whiney teenage tone I'm trying to portray? Haha. I really want to rip my hair out sometimes. She has so little patience with the other kids and minimizes every accomplishment they make/ "Oh my gosh Bentley, you're just learning how to do subtraction? I learned that FOREVER ago". "Oh my gosh Ivy, you like to watch Daniel Tiger'? That is SUCH a baby show". Don't get me wrong. There are moments, really glorious moments, when she is kind and sweet, but I am just starting to see an irritated/annoyed/impatient side of her a lot more. I don't really know how to handle it and it just scares the bejeebers out of me. But still… every night, no matter how exhausting or trying my day has been with her, I sneak in her room and give her a kiss on the check, and she gives me the sweet little grin she has been giving me for nine years. And I remember that under the drama and raging hormones is my sweet little Gwenie girl. Somewhere .. .Bentley - Well, I'll be honest, it's really hard for me to not make it seem like Bentley is my favorite kid right now :) Of course I don't have favorites but he is the easiest to love right now :) Ha ha. I think he has realized that being obedient and kind can be his "special thing" (those qualities are hard to come by in this family). He is the only one I can get to do his daily job, and he has voluntarily offered to take everyone's least favorite job (dishwasher) and do it every day s that no one else will have to do it. If I ever ask him to do anything he is quick to jump up and help and do it, no questions asked and no thought of reward. He will be the peace maker. He does his homework. He is just so inherently good. He is what is getting me through this rough patch I am having with parenthood. He gives me hope. He is so even tempered. If I ever blurt out the line to a song, he picks up (without missing a beat) and finishes with the next line of the song. If I tease him about a girl he just laughs and rolls his eyes (which is about the cutest thing ever!). He's just been easy to get along with for the last little while, and I am ever so glad! What a great phase for him :)Ivy - The little spitfire is as crazy as ever. She has totally taken charge of her wardrobe and accessorizing. I can't even fight it anymore. She wears some wild outfits, clashing patterns, always with a skirt over her pants, mismatched colors. It's a good thing I'm not an uptight mom who is worried about appearances because she always looks pretty wild going to preschool :) she commandeers every piece of jewelry that I own (which isn't much) and will wear a necklace or two each day, bows in her hair, and paints her nails and wears mascara every day. I am very scared for when she is a teenager, yikes! Ha ha. She is also so addicted to "media" time. I have tried so hard to limit our kids to half an hour a day of screen time but holy moses- she starts begging at 7 AM and won't stop till after bedtime. Some (lots) of days I cave because I simply can't keep up the fight. Hopefully that will change when the baby comes and we can fix these bad habits! She is growing so fast and says the funniest things. So random but the other day in the car she was like "it's really weird, but all of my favorite songs are by boys with darker skin. Because they can sing fast". It made me laugh, mostly because it is true ha ha. She keeps me on my toes. She is hard for me too, but in a different way than Gwen.Girls girls girls! I can't believe another one is on the way. I am s curious if the baby will be like Ivy or Gwen or totally different from the both of them. It's fun to see the kids connect with the baby. Bentley and Ivy finally got to feel the baby kick and their eyes just lit up with excitement. It's been really fun to share this experience with them. They've been so sweet to be understanding about me not feeling well and being able to do the things that I normally would do with them. My back hurts so bad that I can barely walk. We are normally pretty outgoing and do a lot of fun things, but the last six months we've been pretty much homebound during the day because I'm just not up for much. They've been super patient and I can't wait to feel good again so we can get back to doing fun things! I miss being outside and going on adventures. (I'd be remiss if I didn't mention how amazing Blaine has been through this whole pregnancy ordeal too - I've never been more in love with him. He has really picked up the slack and taken care of me. He's been so patient and caring, way more than I deserve! Love him so much).This got super long! Sorry dude. I hope things have turned around and that your days are going better.We sure miss you and love you!Love,Kris
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Re: Happy and full week
Great letter. Janey. I love you guys for all the good things you are doing! Thanks for your constant good example.
Sent from my iPadHey Max,It's been a busy and full week, including:-Going to the temple. Since Warner and I no longer have mutual with the youth on Wednesday and we don't have callings (well, Warner just got called as an EQ teacher) we figured we would really make an effort to go to the temple one day a week. We've been successful at going for 4 weeks now! The extra fun thing is two of those weeks we saw someone we knew. One week we were just leaving the Jordan River Temple and we could hear a rather loud youth group who just finished up doing baptisms....and then realized it was Warner's YM group from our Lehi ward that were there for mutual. Our other tender mercy was last week I was walking up to the temple and heard someone yell my name....and it was Maretta who was in her car leaving the temple. They were here for Danny to interview. She jumped out of the car and gave me a quick hug and then they had to go, but either way I knew Grandma Bassett had taken care of that little reunion. :)
-Making sugar cookies. I never did a Christmas gift for the YW leaders I worked with in Lehi as Christmas/end of the year was crazy with us moving. So I wrote letters and made cookies and took them around. It was fun to see old friends. I then went to a free Interior Design class at an interior design store with one of those friends. I also took some cookies to Blaine and Kristi. I took enough so everyone could have one big heart shape cookie and one small cookie. I learned later that Blaine and paid the kids 27 cents for half their big cookie. Haha, Kristi said their was some heavy negotiation going on for how much he was willing to pay!
- Warner and I went with his brother and girlfriend to a Grizzly hockey game. It was an intense game complete with a pretty good fight. Oscar (my doctor I work for) got me free tickets and then he also got us free dinner passes so we could go to concessions and get a free meal. Always fun to know someone with hook-ups.
-Harry Potter. Neither Warner nor I have seen all the Harry Potters, so we borrowed them all from Dad and are moving quickly through them. Warner read a few books,but not all of them. I was reminiscing about when I asked you a long time ago who ended up with who. Back when you told me I remember being so mad that Ron and Hermione ended up together instead of her with Harry. I'm over it now. :) Warner still doesn't know who Harry ends up with......
-Olympics- I love the Olympics because I feel like it's this nation/world "unifying" event. It gives something POSITIVE for people to talk about and relate to. We always have the "news" that we can talk about with people, but usually the news is negative or everyone has a different opinion about it so it creates more of a "controversial conversation" instead of a positive conversation. I feel like the Olympics are just "happy." I also like the Olympics because it always gets me thinking of Jerry Seinfeld lines: "If I would have had a pimple I would have won." "Greatest guy in the world.....never heard of him." "What happened, did you not hear the gun go off......" You know all the lines, they always make me laugh.
Well, that wasn't near as brief as I was planning on. Sorry.I'll close with my testimony of how important it is to have a testimony. I always feel bad for people (and it honestly kind of annoys me) when I hear stories about people who got offended at church or from someone in the ward and so they don't come back (I just heard one recently so it has got me thinking.) When people leave the church over something like that I always wonder where their testimony is. Obviously they didn't really have one. If they really have a problem with someone in the ward they should just go to a different ward or something (like forgive them and move on)....but not altogether stop going to church! Didn't they believe in Jesus Christ and his plan for us? How could they "forget" about and "drop" all of the things they learned because someone offended them? What about the eternal scheme of things? Anyway, it's been a good reminder how important it is to always strengthen your testimony as you never know what might "get to you." But if you believe in Jesus Christ and have a strong testimony then you won't let others imperfections "get to you." I hope and pray that I will always choose not to be offended! :) Sorry about that rampage....I've just heard a few stories at work recently.
Love ya little brother!Love, JaneyRe: Another wild week - Nick
Glad work is getting better.So sorry about the mice. I don't know how you guys do it. I don't know if I could drive my car....I'd be too afraid it would jump out at me. You guys are troopers.
On Sunday, February 23, 2014, Nick Bassett <nick.w.bassett@gmail.com> wrote:
Hi Max,--I'm writing you with the Olympic closing ceremonies playing in the background. I'm surprised how many people don't really care for the olympic games, but I love them!We had a great President's day weekend. I got in to work very early so that I could get away early as well. I played soccer with the boys outside, we went to McDonalds (always their first choice) and then we watched Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back. The Star Wars series (especially the 3 originals) are really fun. The kids love them as well!We've been dealing with mice again. Ugh. Luckily we haven't had them back in our pantry since the original mouse problem, but this time we somehow got on in our car. It was in there for probably 3-4 days until we finally caught it. Pretty gross but actually kinda funny too :)Work has been going REALLY well lately. I won't bore you with details, but the work I've been doing is starting to pick up and even though I'm more busy than usual, it's been very rewardingWe took the young men on the klondike this weekend. I stayed with the other leader in his heated tent trailer while the boys all camped outside. It was in a parking lot at the Brian Head ski resort. We were supposed to ski the next day but they had so many boys come that there wasn't enough equipment. We didn't end up getting to ski but were able to take a rain check for the same discounted price for another weekend. Overall we had a great time.We had stake conference this weekend with a visiting authority - Elder Adukaitis. He was such a fun guy with a knowledge of the scriptures. I was so impressed how much he taught out of the standard works and he had such a fun happy personality. He is originally from Brazil and he sounds EXACTLY like Gru from despicable me. It was such a fun accent to listen to. The highlight for me was the priesthood leadership session where his entire hour and a half was question and answer. It was great!Life is great - we love you!Nick
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Monday, February 24, 2014
Re: Happy and full week
Great letter. Janey. I love you guys for all the good things you are doing! Thanks for your constant good example.
Sent from my iPadHey Max,It's been a busy and full week, including:-Going to the temple. Since Warner and I no longer have mutual with the youth on Wednesday and we don't have callings (well, Warner just got called as an EQ teacher) we figured we would really make an effort to go to the temple one day a week. We've been successful at going for 4 weeks now! The extra fun thing is two of those weeks we saw someone we knew. One week we were just leaving the Jordan River Temple and we could hear a rather loud youth group who just finished up doing baptisms....and then realized it was Warner's YM group from our Lehi ward that were there for mutual. Our other tender mercy was last week I was walking up to the temple and heard someone yell my name....and it was Maretta who was in her car leaving the temple. They were here for Danny to interview. She jumped out of the car and gave me a quick hug and then they had to go, but either way I knew Grandma Bassett had taken care of that little reunion. :)
-Making sugar cookies. I never did a Christmas gift for the YW leaders I worked with in Lehi as Christmas/end of the year was crazy with us moving. So I wrote letters and made cookies and took them around. It was fun to see old friends. I then went to a free Interior Design class at an interior design store with one of those friends. I also took some cookies to Blaine and Kristi. I took enough so everyone could have one big heart shape cookie and one small cookie. I learned later that Blaine and paid the kids 27 cents for half their big cookie. Haha, Kristi said their was some heavy negotiation going on for how much he was willing to pay!
- Warner and I went with his brother and girlfriend to a Grizzly hockey game. It was an intense game complete with a pretty good fight. Oscar (my doctor I work for) got me free tickets and then he also got us free dinner passes so we could go to concessions and get a free meal. Always fun to know someone with hook-ups.
-Harry Potter. Neither Warner nor I have seen all the Harry Potters, so we borrowed them all from Dad and are moving quickly through them. Warner read a few books,but not all of them. I was reminiscing about when I asked you a long time ago who ended up with who. Back when you told me I remember being so mad that Ron and Hermione ended up together instead of her with Harry. I'm over it now. :) Warner still doesn't know who Harry ends up with......
-Olympics- I love the Olympics because I feel like it's this nation/world "unifying" event. It gives something POSITIVE for people to talk about and relate to. We always have the "news" that we can talk about with people, but usually the news is negative or everyone has a different opinion about it so it creates more of a "controversial conversation" instead of a positive conversation. I feel like the Olympics are just "happy." I also like the Olympics because it always gets me thinking of Jerry Seinfeld lines: "If I would have had a pimple I would have won." "Greatest guy in the world.....never heard of him." "What happened, did you not hear the gun go off......" You know all the lines, they always make me laugh.
Well, that wasn't near as brief as I was planning on. Sorry.I'll close with my testimony of how important it is to have a testimony. I always feel bad for people (and it honestly kind of annoys me) when I hear stories about people who got offended at church or from someone in the ward and so they don't come back (I just heard one recently so it has got me thinking.) When people leave the church over something like that I always wonder where their testimony is. Obviously they didn't really have one. If they really have a problem with someone in the ward they should just go to a different ward or something (like forgive them and move on)....but not altogether stop going to church! Didn't they believe in Jesus Christ and his plan for us? How could they "forget" about and "drop" all of the things they learned because someone offended them? What about the eternal scheme of things? Anyway, it's been a good reminder how important it is to always strengthen your testimony as you never know what might "get to you." But if you believe in Jesus Christ and have a strong testimony then you won't let others imperfections "get to you." I hope and pray that I will always choose not to be offended! :) Sorry about that rampage....I've just heard a few stories at work recently.
Love ya little brother!Love, JaneyRe: Week 49 - Dad - Bold Armor
Great letter dad. Our visiting authority at Stake Conference emphasized that same point this weekend about not being satisfied. Also, that talk from elder Christofferson has got to be up there with one of my favorite talks of all time. It's such an important principle to understand. If each member would espouse this one concept (which is a close kin to humility in my opinion) the number of members being offended and not coming to church would drop to basically nothing. The change that would occur church-wide would be phenomenal.We love you. Hope the annual interview went well!NickOn Mon, Feb 24, 2014 at 12:57 PM, Blaine Bassett <blainebbassett@gmail.com> wrote:
Haha. I just read that response and was wondering if Mom had just outed herself as not reading Dad's emails very thoroughly. Glad to know it was just an out-of-order sequencing problem and not that she doesn't read them… ;)Re: Week 49 - Dad - Bold Armor
Haha. I just read that response and was wondering if Mom had just outed herself as not reading Dad's emails very thoroughly. Glad to know it was just an out-of-order sequencing problem and not that she doesn't read them… ;)Re: Week 49 - Dad - Bold Armor
That was a particularly good letter, hon. Maybe it was really for me. It was funny that I quoted the "pleased but not satisfied" quote just now in a reply to Stef.I think that everyone will agree that you are a wonderful patriarch to our family. I love you!
Sent from my iPadGreat thoughts, Dad. I've always loved that scripture and the image it paints--"and having done all, to stand." Sometimes it feels like that's about all we can hope to be able to do when we get through some of the trials that come upon us, but hopefully we can always do that. I also really like this principle about being pleased but not satisfied in the sense of not being finished. It's true for missionary work; it's true for the work of the gospel in our own lives; and I think it's true in other professional, familial, and social goals we have as well. There is always more growth that we can create in our relationships, in what we know and are able to do, etc. We are never finished. It is nice to look back and see how far we've come and know that we've worked hard to get to this point. But it is just as important to keep our eyes on the road ahead and to keep pushing and growing and trying to go farther.BlaineRe: Stef
I am excited you guys are coming up. I miss you! I liked the letter. I have heard a similar quote like you said at the end. It was told to dad by a visiting GA after dad had reported on some of the wonderful things we were doing in our stake. He said that "the Lord was pleased but not satisfied!" I like that.
Sent from my iPadI didn't know you guys were coming up. That will be fun—hope we get to see you! Thanks for your thoughts. I like that analogy but I think that might be one reason that missionary work can be so overwhelming to a lot of us so often. It really is a big fence—there is so much to do! I guess we just have to start somewhere, and keep hustling through to get as much done as we can, even if we will never finish the whole thing (or probably even make a serious dent) in this life. :)Re: Auntie Yum Yum
Thanks for writing sweetie. I always feel bad when I miss a week writing Max but I feel better to see such a thorough letter that tells more about what is going on (and in a more fun and relevant way) than I would have been able to write anyway. You got it all in there about our fun week and I especially liked the snapshots you did of each kid. You know the essence of good letter writing, I think: Anyone who read your letter really does have a good feel for what is going on in our lives right now. Anyway, thanks for writing so I could get to bed early and wake up early enough to get my work done this morning. Love you!BlaineP.S. Intentionally leaving off the end tag since I noticed you didn't post to the BAWB. Hope that’s okay.From: Rosey <roseybassett@gmail.com>
Date: Monday, February 24, 2014 8:49 AM
To: Janey Nielsen <janeybassett@gmail.com>
Cc: Kristi Bassett <kristi.bassett@gmail.com>, Max Bassett <max.bassett@myldsmail.net>, "bwbassetts@googlegroups.com" <bwbassetts@googlegroups.com>
Subject: Re: Auntie Yum Yum--The title auntie yum yum is definitely appropriate! The cookie story cracked me up. Love ya jane!
Sent from my iPhoneI made the letter! Yesssssss! :) haha. I always love your letters Kris. Keep up the good attitude....you have less than 100 days.
On Sunday, February 23, 2014, Kristi Bassett <kristi.bassett@gmail.com> wrote:--Hey Max!--We missed you extra tonight! It was really fun to see mom, dad, Janey, Warner, Rosey and Easton tonight. For some reason it feels like it has been forever since we have seen anyone and I've been longing to reconnect. So it was good to see everyone. Of course my heart sank at the thought that in just a few short months we will be leaving and going to Texas. I can't explain why it was so hard for me to move back to Utah and now it is really hard for me to move back to Texas. . . it doesn't make sense, but that's just the way it is I suppose :) I guess maybe I am just really longing to stay in one place for more than a couple of years and it would be nice if that place was close to our family. We were talking to Easton too about how hard it will be to not be here when you get home from your mission! We're going to save our pennies so we can fly you out to visit us once you get home, so be excited for that : )It's been a really nice week. Blaine had the week "off" for placement break. It wasn't as fun as breaks in years past have been. The first year for placement break we went to DIsneyland, and the second year we stayed here and planned our trip to Mexico :). But it's just really nice having him around. The way Blaine's schedule works he didn't have class Thursday, Friday and then the entire next week. He worked really hard most of the time but we did a few fun things.On Monday we went with my parents to see the "ice castles" in Midway. It's kind of been all the craze here in Utah to go to them. I was glad we got a chance to go. They are basically just these man made castles that they make out of icicles. They make mazes and slot canyons and slides and other fun stuff. It was fun to go visit that but after standing in line for about an hour and then wandering around for an hour we were pretty freezing : )We had a fun surprise visit from Janey on Thursday :) She's trying to give Auntie Fun Fun a run for her money by bringing us delicious sugar cookies :) Maybe we will have to call her Auntie Yum Yum ha ha ;) It was really a fun surprise to have her drop by and I got a kick of how much Blaine LOVES the sugar cookies. I love them too, but it was literally all Blaine could talk about for like 48 hours. He even negotiated with the kids to buy portions of their cookies off of them (he got a steal at like 27 cents per half a cookie).Speaking of money, Bentley thinks he is saving up for an iPhone. I don't even have the heart to break it to him that it's not going to happen. Mostly because he only has $25 saved and I think it might take another decade to save the remaining $600. So I'll just let him keep on saving on!We took the kids swimming on Friday night to the legacy center. It's been really fun to take the kids swimming lately, especially there, because the water is shallow enough in the whole place that Gwen and Bentley can both reach everywhere in the pool. And they have a hot tub, so sometimes we can get away with slapping Ivy's life jacket on (and, let's be honest, Bentley's too :) and sitting in the hot tub while watching them play in the pool. Win win! Except now that I'm pregnant I can't sit in the hot tub, ha ha. So this time I was feeling pretty good and just played with the kids. They are a lot of fun when they are getting along, you'll be proud of what a good little swimmer Ivy is.Well, kind of a boring letter, but I'll end with just a little bit about each kid -Gwen - Wow. She's been really hard for me lately. She's only nine but she is starting to act about 14, and not in a good way. She's started in to the "OH MY GOSHHHHHHuh" and "Mooooomuh" can you hear the whiney teenage tone I'm trying to portray? Haha. I really want to rip my hair out sometimes. She has so little patience with the other kids and minimizes every accomplishment they make/ "Oh my gosh Bentley, you're just learning how to do subtraction? I learned that FOREVER ago". "Oh my gosh Ivy, you like to watch Daniel Tiger'? That is SUCH a baby show". Don't get me wrong. There are moments, really glorious moments, when she is kind and sweet, but I am just starting to see an irritated/annoyed/impatient side of her a lot more. I don't really know how to handle it and it just scares the bejeebers out of me. But still… every night, no matter how exhausting or trying my day has been with her, I sneak in her room and give her a kiss on the check, and she gives me the sweet little grin she has been giving me for nine years. And I remember that under the drama and raging hormones is my sweet little Gwenie girl. Somewhere .. .Bentley - Well, I'll be honest, it's really hard for me to not make it seem like Bentley is my favorite kid right now :) Of course I don't have favorites but he is the easiest to love right now :) Ha ha. I think he has realized that being obedient and kind can be his "special thing" (those qualities are hard to come by in this family). He is the only one I can get to do his daily job, and he has voluntarily offered to take everyone's least favorite job (dishwasher) and do it every day s that no one else will have to do it. If I ever ask him to do anything he is quick to jump up and help and do it, no questions asked and no thought of reward. He will be the peace maker. He does his homework. He is just so inherently good. He is what is getting me through this rough patch I am having with parenthood. He gives me hope. He is so even tempered. If I ever blurt out the line to a song, he picks up (without missing a beat) and finishes with the next line of the song. If I tease him about a girl he just laughs and rolls his eyes (which is about the cutest thing ever!). He's just been easy to get along with for the last little while, and I am ever so glad! What a great phase for him :)Ivy - The little spitfire is as crazy as ever. She has totally taken charge of her wardrobe and accessorizing. I can't even fight it anymore. She wears some wild outfits, clashing patterns, always with a skirt over her pants, mismatched colors. It's a good thing I'm not an uptight mom who is worried about appearances because she always looks pretty wild going to preschool :) she commandeers every piece of jewelry that I own (which isn't much) and will wear a necklace or two each day, bows in her hair, and paints her nails and wears mascara every day. I am very scared for when she is a teenager, yikes! Ha ha. She is also so addicted to "media" time. I have tried so hard to limit our kids to half an hour a day of screen time but holy moses- she starts begging at 7 AM and won't stop till after bedtime. Some (lots) of days I cave because I simply can't keep up the fight. Hopefully that will change when the baby comes and we can fix these bad habits! She is growing so fast and says the funniest things. So random but the other day in the car she was like "it's really weird, but all of my favorite songs are by boys with darker skin. Because they can sing fast". It made me laugh, mostly because it is true ha ha. She keeps me on my toes. She is hard for me too, but in a different way than Gwen.Girls girls girls! I can't believe another one is on the way. I am s curious if the baby will be like Ivy or Gwen or totally different from the both of them. It's fun to see the kids connect with the baby. Bentley and Ivy finally got to feel the baby kick and their eyes just lit up with excitement. It's been really fun to share this experience with them. They've been so sweet to be understanding about me not feeling well and being able to do the things that I normally would do with them. My back hurts so bad that I can barely walk. We are normally pretty outgoing and do a lot of fun things, but the last six months we've been pretty much homebound during the day because I'm just not up for much. They've been super patient and I can't wait to feel good again so we can get back to doing fun things! I miss being outside and going on adventures. (I'd be remiss if I didn't mention how amazing Blaine has been through this whole pregnancy ordeal too - I've never been more in love with him. He has really picked up the slack and taken care of me. He's been so patient and caring, way more than I deserve! Love him so much).This got super long! Sorry dude. I hope things have turned around and that your days are going better.We sure miss you and love you!Love,Kris
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Re: Another wild week - Nick
Thanks Blaine. With the mice I feel the worst for Stef. As a community health majors she's spent time studying the diseases these things carry and so she's extra paranoid. For me, I actually don't mind them all that much - except that I know what it does to Stef. Anyway, I think we've got it pretty well under control for now. It's mostly just spring and fall that we have to ramp up security.As for the job, it's not really anything too specific other than that for the last 3 years I've been kind of a lone man trying to get some traction behind influencing physicians. It's been an uphill battle. Over the last 6-8 weeks though, something has changed. I'm getting a LOT of physicians wanting to engage in the work I'm doing, administration has approved hiring another person to help support with all the requests, and things are just going well.Yeah, there really is something lovable about that voice.Take care!NickOn Mon, Feb 24, 2014 at 5:57 AM, Blaine Bassett <blainebbassett@gmail.com> wrote:
Great letter Nick. Well, whether Max has time to hear the details or not, I certainly am excited to hear what is going so great at work. Congrats on that, whatever it is. What a good feeling (although, like Dad's letter said—you can be pleased but hopefully you are not satisfied yet and you are ready to take it to the next level!)We were talking about you guys and your mouse problem today. Mice are the worst. Like seriously, seriously the worst. I hate em. When we had our problem in our first house when we moved back to Utah, I think it seriously affected our well-being for awhile there. We couldn't sleep cuz we'd hear them scratching around. We didn't want to be at home. I resented doing the rounds to check on all my traps. We have been so lucky to not have mice problems in this house (we are not nearly as careful with crumbs as we should be and we live right across from a huge field so I'm kind of amazed that we haven't had any problems) but we are super grateful. Anyway, hope we get to see you guys this weekend. Thanks for writing.BlaineP.S. I am with you on how funny Gru's voice is. The whole thing just cracks me up too and I could sit and listen to that accent all day. There's just something so lovable about it—though I can't quite put my finger on it. :)Re: Happy and full week
Apparently Ben issacing for an iPhone....I'm sure he would have loved a few more cents to get him that much closer to the phone. :) just teasing....I'm glad you enjoyed them!Week 49 - Letter from Spain (Elder Max) - The work continues
Week 49 - Max - The Work Continues
Monday, February 24, 2014
7:21 AM
Hola familia! :) Como van? I hope all is going well. Thank you all that sent letter. I know I say this every week, but your letters are so perfect. I read each one, and LOVE each one. They help me keep going through the week. So thank you!
Sounds like the cruise was a blast. I wont lie...a mediterrenean cruise would be nice someday :) Just saying! ;) haha
This week was great! :) It is seriously amazing that as each week goes by...my love for the work grows more and more. Even though I become more acostumbrado to the work every day...I learn more and more how important it really, truly is.
Not much has happened this week. Elder Peña and I are continuing to work with our investigators and MA´s. We are on a "short" of investigators right now, so we are working harder and harder to find. This past week, we talked with TONS of people in the street, which was nice. Its been a while since Ive contacted and knocked doors because with Elder Ericson, we didnt do it too much. But I really enjoy finidng people that way. (Just so you know though, this isnt our main source of finding...the main source, of course, has been through the members.) But just when we have extra time in between citas, we always will knock doors and contact a little bit. It is fun. Elder Peña is a BEAST at it. He sure knows how to talk to others...so it has been fun learning from him. I dont know if I have said this before, but I have loved being with this guy...Ive have learned SO MUCH about the work, the doctrine, life, myself, etc etc. I love just learning from my comps. There are those times where we dont fully get along because our cultures are SUUUPER different...but any time I argue or disagree with him, I just remember how much I truly have learned from him.
The mission really teaches you how to get along with others. And how to truly love them.
Right now, we are working lots with Sergio and Angustias. Two less active members that we found that were super active and because of being offended, they left. But we are working with them and have felt that NOW is their time to return. They didnt come to church last week, but we have planned tonight to commit them for next week. Please keep Sergio and Angustias.
We also saw Juan and Paqui this week. They were that HUGE family that we found, Elder Ericon and I. Well...Paqui is super catholic and doesnt want to commit to anything, and because of that...no one else will either. They are super nice and LOVE to talk (which makes things difficult sometimes,) but we sure love them.
Fran (the boyfriend of Vanessa) we werent able to see this week. He is working like crazy! We really hope and pray to be able to visit him this week. I hope the Lord has it in His plans for Fran to be baptized because he could sure be an AWESOME member!!!!! Please keep him in your prayers!
As far as everything else. Things are going good. Thank you all for your prayers and your support. I cant even tell you how much it helps me. I know that this is the true church. It has been shown to me in many ways, before and during my mission. Christ loves each one of us so much and wants us to progress. As we progress, we have the responsibility to help those around us progress. This life is all about progression to become like our Heavenly Father. He HAS progressed completely and knows the steps for how to do it.
I am loving life!
I sure love you all!!
Carry on! A vencer! :)
Love, Elder Bassett
Re: Home Sweet Home
Great letter, Mom. Fun to hear some more of the details of the cruise
(although it was even more fun to be able to hear them in person last
night!). Thanks again for dinner last night. We had such a nice time and I
too was glad that Easton was willing to hop in the car with us and drive
up. She even came with us for a quick visit to the Genessys after we left
your place, where she met Jen and Wayne and Ashley. I didn't tell Easton
until afterwards that Max had gone on a couple dates with their other
daughter Kelsey back when they were both in high school. I know Jen really
loved Max and was always hoping he would ask Kelsey out again, so I
thought it was probably interesting for her to meet the girl that Max is
really in love with. Apparently Kelsey is just about engaged herself at
this point, so I guess everything has worked out for everybody. Anyway,
thanks again for the fun night!
BlaineRe: Another wild week - Nick
Great letter Nick. Well, whether Max has time to hear the details or not, I certainly am excited to hear what is going so great at work. Congrats on that, whatever it is. What a good feeling (although, like Dad's letter said—you can be pleased but hopefully you are not satisfied yet and you are ready to take it to the next level!)We were talking about you guys and your mouse problem today. Mice are the worst. Like seriously, seriously the worst. I hate em. When we had our problem in our first house when we moved back to Utah, I think it seriously affected our well-being for awhile there. We couldn't sleep cuz we'd hear them scratching around. We didn't want to be at home. I resented doing the rounds to check on all my traps. We have been so lucky to not have mice problems in this house (we are not nearly as careful with crumbs as we should be and we live right across from a huge field so I'm kind of amazed that we haven't had any problems) but we are super grateful. Anyway, hope we get to see you guys this weekend. Thanks for writing.BlaineP.S. I am with you on how funny Gru's voice is. The whole thing just cracks me up too and I could sit and listen to that accent all day. There's just something so lovable about it—though I can't quite put my finger on it. :)Re: Week 49 - Dad - Bold Armor
Great thoughts, Dad. I've always loved that scripture and the image it paints--"and having done all, to stand." Sometimes it feels like that's about all we can hope to be able to do when we get through some of the trials that come upon us, but hopefully we can always do that. I also really like this principle about being pleased but not satisfied in the sense of not being finished. It's true for missionary work; it's true for the work of the gospel in our own lives; and I think it's true in other professional, familial, and social goals we have as well. There is always more growth that we can create in our relationships, in what we know and are able to do, etc. We are never finished. It is nice to look back and see how far we've come and know that we've worked hard to get to this point. But it is just as important to keep our eyes on the road ahead and to keep pushing and growing and trying to go farther.BlaineRe: Stef
I didn't know you guys were coming up. That will be fun—hope we get to see you! Thanks for your thoughts. I like that analogy but I think that might be one reason that missionary work can be so overwhelming to a lot of us so often. It really is a big fence—there is so much to do! I guess we just have to start somewhere, and keep hustling through to get as much done as we can, even if we will never finish the whole thing (or probably even make a serious dent) in this life. :)Re: Happy and full week
Thanks for the update, Jane. And thanks again for those delicious cookies. I actually would have paid a lot more than 27 cents per cookie, but I felt guilty taking their whole cookie since, what are they going to do with the money anyway? I was really torn up about the whole thing ;)BlaineSunday, February 23, 2014
Home Sweet Home
Dear Max,
Hola from the kitchen counter! Last week I wrote you from Sid and Stephanie's lovely home and this week I am back to the same old spot. Never has a week gone by so fast! I think you may remember the feeling. You look forward to something for a long, long time and then suddenly it's over. But what a great week we had and we made lots of memories with all of dad's siblings and their spouses. Imagine 14 Bassett's together on a ship! We all stayed healthy and the weather was great the whole time. We feel very blessed.
So now for a quick trip synopsis. We left Saturday afternoon out of Houston on the Caribbean Princess. This was Diane's first cruise and that is always fun to have someone new to the whole thing. We all had inside cabins up on deck 10. That's the highest our cabin has ever been. That is particularly important to me since my personal rule is to never take the elevator, always the stairs. So it was only four flights down to the dining room and five flights up to the Lido deck. You would be impressed to know that for the majority of the time dad joined me on the stairs. I loved it! We sat at two tables in the dining room and rotated every night. We ate plenty of wonderful food. I hate to admit that I usually got two desserts. Princess has extra good desserts.
We had three ports of call - Cozumel, Roatan and Belize. Sound familiar? They were all in a row on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. In Cozumel we all went to the same beach we had gone to before (while you guys scuba dived). In Roatan we got Kevin (same guy as before) to take us around the island and we did the monkey farm and beach and some did the zip line. In Belize only dad and I and Bruce and Jeannie were up to doing anything. Everyone else pretty much stayed on the ship. We took a water taxi out to Caye Caulker (where Blaine and Kristi had gone our first family cruise) That was pretty fun. The trip over took about 40 minutes and I sat next to a man from England. I did my best missionary work and tried to ask him if he ever saw Mormon missionaries. I told him about you on a mission. But I realized as he talked that he was pretty much mixing us up with the JWs. And then at one point he got the idea that we still practiced polygamy. Let's just say I wasn't a very good missionary. And frankly, he wasn't a very good listener, just a good talker!
On the island we walked and walked. At one point we stopped to rest and I turned around and there was a missionary couple. I was totally surprised since this island is about 1x3 miles and has maybe a thousand people. Turns out they had flown to the island for the day with 4 elders to tract. The man was in the mission presidency and they were from Centerville Utah pretty close to Bruce and Jeannie. Small world in the church! I kept thinking we might run into the elders but we never did. I've got to think missionary work would be hard on an island like that.
So we had lots of days at sea to play games. Aunt Jann would pull around this black suitcase with all the games. We found a spot up in the dining on top where we could congregate when it wasn't meal times. There was usually someone there playing a game. A new thing this ship had was "movies under the stars". They have a huge screen on the pool deck and at night they have covers for the deck chairs and blankets and popcorn and they had movie nights. We also went to a couple of the shows - a magician one night, a 70's singer another night. It was just a great time to be all together! I am grateful we could go.
So now we are trying to get back into life. Today was another ward conference. Tonight I had everyone to dinner for Hawaiian haystacks. It was so fun because Easton came. It was a very last minute invitation but we were so happy she could join us. She always brings lots of love and energy. It was great to visit with her. It was fun to hear how much she enjoyed the valentines flowers and card. She was truly surprised.
Tonight we also went to a Peter Breinholt fireside. I think dad told you he is a counselor in one of our YSA wards. He spoke and sang a few numbers and it was really nice. I can't remember if you were a Peter B fan or not but I really like his style.
Well I hope by now all your car problems are fixed. It sounded like a crazy week last week. It's comforting to know that the Lord is watching over you and will help you to be where you need to be. I love the scripture in Proverbs that just popped into my head - "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy paths." I know that is something that I need to do better at in my calling. I have many moments of self doubt and I realize that it is just Satan working on me and my lack of trust in the Lord.
So I will end with a silly thought that came from a picture that Elizabeth Wynn included in her last letter. It was on a big advertising board out in front of a church. It said:
Jesus, the bread of life
Without him
You are toast!
Okay not very inspirational but kind of funny.
I sure love you. I am so pleased with your efforts and your hard work. Keep growing and stretching and learning and obeying.
Lots of love and kisses and hugs,
Mom
End#
Sent from my iPadAnother wild week - Nick
Hi Max,I'm writing you with the Olympic closing ceremonies playing in the background. I'm surprised how many people don't really care for the olympic games, but I love them!We had a great President's day weekend. I got in to work very early so that I could get away early as well. I played soccer with the boys outside, we went to McDonalds (always their first choice) and then we watched Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back. The Star Wars series (especially the 3 originals) are really fun. The kids love them as well!We've been dealing with mice again. Ugh. Luckily we haven't had them back in our pantry since the original mouse problem, but this time we somehow got on in our car. It was in there for probably 3-4 days until we finally caught it. Pretty gross but actually kinda funny too :)Work has been going REALLY well lately. I won't bore you with details, but the work I've been doing is starting to pick up and even though I'm more busy than usual, it's been very rewardingWe took the young men on the klondike this weekend. I stayed with the other leader in his heated tent trailer while the boys all camped outside. It was in a parking lot at the Brian Head ski resort. We were supposed to ski the next day but they had so many boys come that there wasn't enough equipment. We didn't end up getting to ski but were able to take a rain check for the same discounted price for another weekend. Overall we had a great time.We had stake conference this weekend with a visiting authority - Elder Adukaitis. He was such a fun guy with a knowledge of the scriptures. I was so impressed how much he taught out of the standard works and he had such a fun happy personality. He is originally from Brazil and he sounds EXACTLY like Gru from despicable me. It was such a fun accent to listen to. The highlight for me was the priesthood leadership session where his entire hour and a half was question and answer. It was great!Life is great - we love you!NickWeek 49 - Dad - Bold Armor
Week 49 - Dad - Bold Armor
Sunday, February 23, 2014
9:25 PM
Dear Max,
Questions:
- We need 2 pictures for your international Driver's license as soon as possible Try if you can to get it taken today. Otherwise you may be busted back to a private.
- Do you still want letters (paper) from your pre-mission buddies (Trevor, Zach, Redford, Garrett)? I have about 4 month's worth that I could print for you…but I don't know that they are things you'd want since you probably already get letters from them independently. Let me know and I'll send them.
- How are your investigators doing?
Scripture:
This morning during our Stake Priesthood Leadership meeting, we were talking about how the Doctrine of Christ is critical in so many ways. I hope that is what you are sharing at every turn. As we were talking about the last phase of the Doctrine of Christ (endurance) our president was encouraging us to not think of it as a terrible painful process, but one full of hope, joy and blessings. I do believe he is right. However, I also think the temptations before us can be overwhelming. And I thought of the scripture in Ephesians 6 where Paul talks about how we need to put on the whole armor of God… for even if we do all we can, if we can even have the strength to stand, we will be good.
12 For we awrestle not bagainst cflesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the drulers of the edarknessof this world, against spiritual fwickedness in high places.
13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
As I read ahead, and read about the whole armor of God, I also saw the blessing that comes to those who do it… or at least at first that's what I thought…
19 And for me, that utterance may be given unto me, that I may open my mouth boldly, to make known the amystery of the gospel,
20 For which I am an ambassador in bonds: that therein I may speak aboldly, as I ought to speak.
Then as I pondered it more, it occurred to me that perhaps Paul wasn't saying that by putting on the whole armor of God we become more bold to do our duty…but perhaps he was saying that when we speak boldly and do our duty as we ought, that it is another form of armor…it protects us even more.
Either way you interpret the scripture the blessings of protection and boldness comes as we do our duty and wear the armor.
I pray that you will go out and work hard…and with boldness. And as you do it will protect you from temptation and challenges of the world.
May we all do our duties that we can be clean.
Thought:
I shared the following thought to my coworkers at the Church Office, and to my Brothers and Sisters on the Cruise. I think since you are the representative of the Lord (to your investigators) and of the Mission President (to your Zone) you may appreciate this thought. Enjoy.
I remember years ago as Stake President we had a Wonderful Family History Fair. It was amazing. So many worked so hard to prepare:
- Fill the gym with displays
- Things from all over the world
- Journals that were 100's of years old
- Old English Writing displays
- Armor making displays
- People who were related to prophets
- A 30' wall covering of one person's family history
- Workshops on how to write a journal
- Movies showing how to do family history
- Indexing instruction
- Desserts and Meals from many countries out in the pavillion
- Photographer taking pictures of families which were then posted online
As President, I was so happy with the work. I wanted to give everyone who came, who worked a big hug and thank them for all they did.
A few weeks later a visiting Elder Dale G. Renlund, came to visit our stake. I was so happy with what we had done, that when he asked how our Stake was doing, I did a full description of this event.
Perhaps I'd gone on a little too long on how great our stake was, when He then taught me a very important lesson.
He said it was a lesson he had been taught years before as a Stake President.
And it's a lesson that applies to each of us here.
And that was - "You can certainly be PLEASED with wonderful works. But you can NEVER be SATISFIED."
Here at the church, we are in the process of going through our ATIs. Being reviewed for work done last year, and looking at work we want to accomplish this year.
We may have done some wonderful things last year. This is a time to pause and reflect on how good it feels to accomplish some great things.
But it's also a time to see what we could have done better. And pause long enough to commit to doing better.
We can be pleased… but never satisfied.
Elder Christopherson spoke on the subject of being chastened and receiving correction. He said that each of us - if we want to become like unto the savior - have a long way to go. But if we will develop one attribute, we will arrive. And that attribute is this:
"willingly to accept and even seek correction. Correction is vital if we would conform our lives "unto a perfect man, [that is,] unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ" (Ephesians 4:13). Paul said of divine correction or chastening, "For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth" (Hebrews 12:6). Though it is often difficult to endure, truly we ought to rejoice that God considers us worth the time and trouble to correct.
He said that if we will seek Divine chastening we will come unto the perfect man/woman. This attribute has 3 purposes that prepares us… (1) to persuade us to repent, (2) to refine and sanctify us, and (3) at times to redirect our course in life to what God knows is a better path.
May each of us find pleasure in the good works we do, enjoy our time here. But may we also seek diving chastening that we may never be satisfied.
May the Lord bless you and your companion, and your investigators and MAs.
We love and pray for you always.
Love,
Dad
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